walk through....

walk through....

Friday, May 27, 2011

Work with what you have...wait what do we have!?!

All things look great when we first get them...that new toy, new book, new shoes, new jewelry, new haircut, new car...heck...new baby! But then things collect dust and we forget we even own things...

So today is about teaching the children about ownership, responsibility, working as a team, intrinsic value, praise, worth, and love.



in tight spaces organization and de-cluttering is a must and a way of life. Teaching the children to value not only their possessions by organizing and keeping them in its proper place to keep them damage free, but to value what their parents work hard to provide them with. Showing the children damaged toys, missing pieces, broken cars and ripped pages in books hopefully instills in them that its not fun having to throw away things we once really liked and wish we could play with again. I want them to value their possessions not because its a thing but because people in this world care enough about them to encourage their development through the one of the most positive and pleasant ways possible....through play!

So maybe our children will learn to take care of their prized possessions, learn to share the responsibility of maintaining a house, and well that mommy doesn't like cleaning the toy closet out when its in disarray and sometimes she just might throw them all out! (just kidding....I think)

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Summer time meals...

Being budget conscience and well a lover of food presents an interesting challenge.  I no longer have the advantage of traveling to the best supermarkets and hunting for the best prices or best of the best of anything....sort of.....

The great thing about NYC is anything you virtually need is available to you...you just have to find it and well make it work...

So off to the market we go!...but before we do I  have decided to use my new great versa slow cooker and well some meat (cornish hens) that has been in the freezer for some time (while i don't recommend using old frozen meat it happens especially during a recession and when you are out of a job....but anyway). So i know the key to making possible old meat taste good is great seasons and well to slow cook the toughness out...and away we go to the market!

Did i mention that everyone has a shopping cart, even if you have a car! Its the best invention around because i can walk from fresh market to market collecting my goodies without feeling extra limited.
I pick up some fresh scallions, carrots, red potatoes, onions, thyme, and some cilantro based paste (i don't know what GOYA makes but its great!)

The joy of walking to the stores and picking the freshest ingredients at the best price not only gives us exercise but we get to know our new neighbors! Nikki spends this time speaking to the people in the street and walking from store to store exploring her surrounding, she asks to push the cart and help pick out fresh fruits and veggies. I use these moments to teach her new fruits and veggies and the value of money. I encourage her to pick up foods she has never seen before and explore its color, shape, texture and we talk about where they come from and how we can cook them. It truly is a great experience for the both of us! Nikki runs from block to block and we are now in the phase of development where we learn trust and boundaries. I call out to her and she responds appropriately and i give her more space and more freedom to explore.

The goal of this meal is to provide nutrition at the same time free myself from the hot ass kitchen that we all hate int he coming summer months. The blessings in slow cooking is simple...put it in and forget it!
I might start a new blog dedicated to my culinary discoveries and adventures (yet another tool in my road to recovery is returning to the things i love and enjoy and finding meaning in them again)...but for now...
Summer time meals is about providing my family with great food, while SPENDING the quality time with them.
I love being a mother...i enjoy discovering things with them and helping them discover new things!

So now that i have put all my lovely ingredients into my versacooker (sort of a blend of a slow cooker and saute' cooker) i set it and im off to color in our fairy book and discover the new land of make believe that the kids have created! Ciao Bellas!

Friday, May 20, 2011

allergies...smallergies....says grandad

One of the charges of being a grandparent is to pretty much undo every and anything your child has done to raise the healthy respectable child YOU know your parents expect of you....and so the summer (yes i know its not official yet) started with lots of just daily anytime trips for me and nikki to the park...it really started because i would get off work travel from NJ to NY to meet my boyfriend and we would have to wait until he got off from work...and luck has it...he lives across the street from a great park! so me and nik nak would go and play until he and his son came home....did you figure it out yet???
The tragedy of loosing my husband has brought life to a standstill....but how awesome was it of GOD to send me two people from my past who love and support me unconditionally?
The first...my prom date
the second...my real father
Both whom i haven't seen since the 90's...both who i need to get through this life as i am struggling so bad! BUT...
Granddad took Nikki to the park..his absolute privalge to do so...
now nik nak is known for her illness here and there...and yes allergies is one of them...
but what does grandad come back from the park with...nikki holding ragweeds and leaves...
but nikki took the side effects because Grandad gave them to her and let her pick them...he let her be a kid...
My kid...gets to be a kid...and so i say allergies...smallergies...let the girl play!
Hello SUMMER!!!
sn: pic of nik and her granddad to come soon!

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Baggage

Unloading...our bags..in NYC! WE are here and we are going to have a great summer..for those who follow this blog they can get more background from thesecondjourney.tumblr.com.....
This blog is dedicated to the summer i decided to do everything i wanted to do...people said i couldn't do, things i was scared to do, and well......its the summer of us...and if you follow me you will see...just what i mean!